Once, when I was a lost sheep (in fact I'm still a lost sheep), my cousin gave me this saying. When it's time for the second coming of Christ, those who follow Him shall live eternally. Those who don't shall perish.
Now, I' m telling you about another story. But this saying still apply. Faint heart never won fair lady. When there's an opportunity for you to win that lady's heart, just go for her. Do not wait until that fair lady feel that you've lost your appeal. She may turn to another hunk. If that really happens, then serve you right!
So, what you can do is ask for guidance from above. Heaven, have mercy on us!